By the time your date comes around, she’ll already have lost interest or have found someone more attentive.
If you really are going away, wait until you get back to ask her out.
Also given how many closets most gay women live with, only a miniscule percentage ever really come out.
So if you are "coming out" to yourself and being openly proud of your own sexuality, get prepared for the spotlight.
Names of women who may be interested will be dropped and you will be the topic of much conversation.Why you'll both like it: The arguments feel real—they begin for no reason and turn ugly.You'll find yourselves pledging never to say such mean things to each other.A good rule of thumb: if you aren’t available for a date within 7 days of sending the message, don’t send it.NOT-SO-SMOOTH OPERATOR The scenario: “I recently received a message that said, ‘Damn you’re a pretty white girl, you into muscular black men?